We had Ethan's 504 meeting yesterday afternoon, and he was "approved" . . . this whole process went much smoother than I expected it would. Everyone has always told me about how I would have to fight and be a bitch with the school district to get this set up, but they jumped right on it and had it all done within, I think, about a month of when I requested it . . . actually . . . it only took 5 weeks. Pretty incredible actually, when you consider how many people had to be coordinated for meetings (Core Team and 504).
Anyway, we will have something to take with us to his new school, so they will know right away that there are certain things that will have to be done . . . none of the "wait and see" approach. So I'm happy!